I cant god damn stand this place. We live in a 2 story house and she just rips everything apart trying to "fix it" and never finishes. She knocked a wall out upstairs, and never went back to doing anything with it, she then scraped the stipple off the ceilings and left it all shitty looking, and never went back to it, she then ripped all the baseboards out, ripped the floor out of the kitchen and all the cupboards, and half *** painted everything trying to make it look nice, when it actually looks like hell!! Now she has gone from doing stuff inside to ripping the whole lawn out of the front yard, and trying to " make the yard nice ", meanwhile the whole inside is getting trashed because she is always outside! I don't know what to do! HELP!
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It is possible that she suffers from ADD or ADHD. While there is realy nothing you can do to make her stop, you might want to try and do a project with her. This might be enough to keep her on track. It is also possible that she is trying to run away from something. When my husband gets realy upset about somethin he either works on our house or he works out at the gym. You might want to look into helping her redirect her energy.
You, and every other teenager on the planet, join the club. Good news is, your invited to leave when your 18, good luck :)
try helping her.
kill her and move out.
hire a professional repair man
HA! u got it easy! u shud meet my mum, i wud prefer it if she did crazy stuff like ur mum! (seriously, i wud!)
Bummer...maybe u should offer to help her finish a project...OR if you are old enough...get a job and move out.
gee, have u tried..idk...TALKING TO HER?
you need to help that mom yours she needs to finish it right not half *** you better jelp her out
Sounds like she needs a specialist in mental health instead of home repair. Can you step in and help finish a small project she started or won't she let you help? If you start small, if usually gives you the confidence to get a little bigger project done, and it feels good when one gets done.
Whoah I'm sorry but there really isn't anything you can do. it sounds like your mom needs a hobby or some counseling (sorry to say that) but it seems she really isn't happy with the house...would help if she had help with it.
Does your family know about this? I suggest maybe you talk to your aunts or uncles or grandma w/e and ask if they think she need help. Maybe you all can work together to make the house better or to help her with her illness. Someone needs to sit down and talk to her.
You could take pictures of the mess...maybe she doesn't see the mess like you do... Maybe looking at some photos of how horrible it is..or showing before and after photos...she will be like omg.
sounds bad have her check with counseling or have one to go see you and they can see what she is doing with out her knowledge if she needs help she will have to ask for it, did you check with child protection.
dude how old r u ?
just wait till ur eighteen! :)
see if u can get a few friends over and try to help fixing things the right way, maybe your mom gets started and don't finish because she has no one to help her, or she satrts and finds she don't have the money it would cost to fix it, just try to give her a hand in it and fix things the best u can with what u have to work with
Why don't you try helping her. Do your research first on DYI.com
pick a room that bothers you the most and see what it will cost to fix it and ask your mom if she can afford to do it with you.
Good Luck
Seriously, theres a lot of people like that, start something and not finish it, and keep moving from one thing to another. It's nothing to "hate" your mom over, maybe you can try helping her.
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